Stop Idealising the European City. Nothing is accomplished by you complaining that you don't live in literally Amsterdam or Copenhagen. You know what got those cities to be so good, here's a hint, people in those cities fought for improvements. So instead of just complaining about your city, Do Something. Join a transit advocacy or Climate group, find out where protests are, talk to your fucking neighbors. Because if we want to fix our cities, it won't happen because some guy on the internet complained, no it will happen because of demands from the community in your city.