There may be the horrors but consider there could be a pretty woman commuting to New York on that train you are considering taking
Don't let the horrors stop you, you too can fall hopelessly in love with a lesbian on the train that you have never talked to
what if I'm a guy who doesn't want that
Then you don't have to fall in love?
What if I'm a guy who does want that but I'm gay
Then fall in love with one of the other commuters that are gay if you want to