feral-bookwoom asked:

I mean, one gender that people rarely consider is agender. I’m agender and it took me forever to figure out because…. How are you supposed to know when you’re *not* experiencing something?? Different peoples’ experiences are probably different, but for me agender means that I don’t really feel particularly drawn to or connected to any gender. I feel most connected to my assigned gender at birth because that is how people have treated me my whole life and it has colored my experiences, but I don’t feel very connected to it on a personal level. For a long time I said my gender was “cis? I guess? I mean I’m not really trans so I guess I’m cis? But that feels kinda wrong? I mean if I had to say a label maybe genderqueer? But my gender kinda hates labels. Like, I know how I feel about my gender but even if I found the very perfect label, the act of labeling it would make the label wrong.” And then later on I realized that agender fits me quite well! So yeah, if any of that resonates, consider agender! Best of luck with the gender <3

I may have to take this into consideration