different anon but please consider how it sounds to brag "im writing a story where a lesbian's relationships with women are all toxic and abusive but her sex with a man is comparatively healthy and normal". even if you didn't mean it this way it feels very 'corrective'.

Hmmm yeah, I didn’t think about that, I don’t want it to be corrective or anything like that, I will try to figure out how to rewrite the story to not have those implications